Good morning,
Setting aside any issue of how the OP treats the bike, it's not a very good advert for modern bike engineering is it?
I'm as certain as I can be, that every single one of my bikes is still on it's original factory headset after anything up to 47 years, and I wouldn't mind betting the majority are on their original chainrings, mechs and rear gears too.I
I am not in complete agreement, apart from the headset, as I regard a lot of modern bikes, such as all Defys as competition level equipment, although they are often being bought and used as general purpose equipment.
I have no problem with competition level equipment such as 10speed plus components having what I would consider an unacceptable lifespan for a general purpose bike as the compromises needed to make cheap 10speed outweigh the disadvantages for equipment intended for competition.
I did once wonder what the response to Sora Di2 would be
https://www.cyclechat.net/threads/fantasy-question–-specialized-allez-sora-di2-or-mechanical-105.247736/
this does of course presume that Di2 is a good thing.
I would love to see 7/8 speed 105 as a current product range. Although I can see the problem in offering it, the option to be able to buy 7/8spd 105 is one that I wouldn't be surprised to see taken up in large volumes, although often as a second purchase.
Having 10speed and 8speed bikes with the same cassette range 11-25 but 50t 10sp and 52t 8sp I do feel confident in saying that for me the 8sp bike is a better bike for general purpose use but I would prefer the 10sp if I intended to go compete.
However I do 10mile TTs on a RTTC (or whatever they are called now) measured course by myself on the 8sp just for personal interest, so an increase in speed by improving equipment is meaningless to me.
Recently I have been using the Shimano RS10 (16/20 spoke) wheels from my plastic bike on my steel bike as I want to see how long they will last. They definitely feel different but if there is any speed advantage it is lost within experimental error, as they are 2.77kg (edit from 2.77g) including tyres, tubes and cassette they are just over 0.9kg lighter than the (36/36) wheels they replace they may be expected to offer less gyroscopic stability.
But it is very clear in my mind that I am playing with competition equipment and using it as general purpose equipment, I don't intend to take the experiment to the point where I add the supermarket shopping hanging from the brake levers that the 36 spoke wheels are happy with.
I am surprised that you haven't ever worn out any aluminium chain rings, I got just under 20k miles from one when commuting in all weathers and riding through gritty snow and puddles, and find that perfectly acceptable. :-)
Bye
Ian