now you're getting upset. That wasn't my intention.f1_fan said:Well leaving the patronising nature of your reply aside how about you actally read my posts? I am not warning Mikey personally as no road user will ever get a word out of me, I simply don't do road rage, it's so subjective and pointless that I would rather just defuse the situation and go on my way apologising if I am in the wrong.
My warning is that he is antagonistic in his approach and he will one day meet someone who will take matters (wrongly) into his own hands. The fact he will be able to claim the moral high ground will do him no good at all when he is on the end of a physical assault. Still, that's up to him.
In fact I would go as far as to say that Mikey appears to go around in a state of suppressed frenzy just as much as any car driver. After all why else would he go home and create his little vigilante videos complete with all those cute captions to post on You Tube. OCD is the only other answer I can find.
Take this on board. This is a knowledge building forum which attempts to link the experience of cyclists. And BentMikey, like Magnatom, is one of those good souls who bring to this board an appreciation of things as they are, and how short things are from what they should be. Overtaking in the lunatic fashion shown on his videos is a constant bugbear.
My approach is very different to BM's. I noticed long ago that the slower the cyclist the less respect they were shown by motorists. Further, women cyclists, my own dear lady wife included, are intimidated in a manner that male cyclists aren't - the usual thing is driving too close behind when it is impossible to pass, and then passing when there really isn't enough room.
When I cycle with my wife, which I do on a regular basis, I manage to contain the excesses of drivers taking the mickey with a kind of patented stare - you would be amazed at the havoc a bit of eye contact wreaks on their fragile egos. When I'm on my own, on those very rare occasions that I'm messed about with by a driver, I tend to exact a degree of punishment - in London this is easily done because there is very little chance of the muppets escaping. I call it consciousness building in motorists - it's a kind of public service. Don't trouble to thank me.
BM's approach, which is altogether more civilised, is commendable in its restraint - but, then, of the two of us, he is by far the better man. Those motorists who find themselves on his youtube files can thank their lucky stars that they met him and not me.
At the ripe old age of 55 I long ago worked out that the kind of driver that cuts you up is the kind of driver that shrinks in to his shell when he (always he, by the way) is taken to task.