Things you'd like to say, but can't

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Ive told you most of your teenage and adult life, get control of it, its your life, make decisions that matter. Stop ambling along, stop making wrong decisions, stop being so incredibly fatalistic or one day, you are going to seriously regret it.
And here we are...you are facing a catastrophe in your life.
Not through badness...but a bad decision, not questioning, just acting on instinct, just like you always did...and now we're all in a spiral of emotion, sadness and worry.
You cant help it...that was the pack of cards you were dealt, a chemical imbalance, an edginess about you, rebellious and sometimes arguementative. Yet loving, a complete opposite sometimes. .. I knew at 5 years old you were different, a rebel, a non conformer yet equally you can be loving, a wildlife lover, a grafter when your heads in it.
I hope your psychiatric help helps, you've been struggling with life for years and now this....
Ive told you some of this, some I can't, you're fragile. Youve self harmed in the past and attempted suicide twice... and we're scared to death for you.

Some people are not very lucky in life, my son is one of them.

And God strike down the person who got you in the mess you're in.
(No one died, not internet related and not drugs)
If I could hug you, then I would.
 
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Nibor

Bewildered
Location
Accrington
If I am watching the tele and you want to say something important please ensure I am listening to you before you say it rather than just saying it and having a go at me for not listening. There you got rant over.
 

AndyRM

XOXO
Location
North Shields
I've said this, but cannot do anything about it so I suppose it fits here...

If I could work out where that knacker lived I would jam a potato up his no doubt oversized and pointless exhaust pipe. What an absolute fud!
 
Your selfish, attention seeking behaviour whilst your dad was dying of cancer was an absolute disgrace. Now you have developed the same illness maybe you'll appreciate the torment you put your parents through when they already had enough to deal with. At least now you've got all that attention you craved.
 
I'd put money on one day your comfortable life will come crashing down round you. Maybe then you won't be the smug, condescending twat you are now.
 
And you can consider yourself fortunate that someone isn't having to clean what's left of you out of the ventilation duct above your desk.
 

gbb

Squire
Location
Peterborough
Some of this I have said to a senior department manager...well, he did ask how it was going....
This is THE worst company I ever worked for.
There is a complete and utter disconnect between management and the shop floor. As a result, almost everything is in a mess.
You think you can make things better by the imposition of paperwork, tickboxes and signatures. It doesnt work, thats why you now have a 'compliance ' team to try to enforce an already failed workmethod. Everyone just does what they like.
Get some management arses off their seats and out of meetings and ACTUALLY see whats happening out here.
You think agency workers are the answer to your cost imperatives....guess what, having machine operators that cant even speak english doesnt work. How can they tick boxes and sign when they almost certainly cant read English. They cant comminicate problems, they dont even have the right mentality. Get the agency to supply people with some sort of get up and go...not just any old worker. How can you enforce H&S when they cant read or speak english.
Oh you're a brilliant company in a corporate sense, fabulous at getting orders, but pleassse, make sure we can actually pack the flaming stuff...that we have the capacity. Its already buckling undrr the strain.
PPMs, TPMs, dont make me laugh, you want 100% efficiency out of the machines...ypu DESPERATELY need reliability to complete orders...but you relentlessly take on work and push machines...and your staff to the limit.

Ive worked in the food industry for nearly 40 years. Long before mass immigration....and believe me when I say,, things were better 40 years ago. We've gone backwards. People had the right attitude. The Polish do...but the vast vast majority of eastern european workers we get now are just doing the minimum they can for their wage packet. Damage to racking and structure has reached epidemic proportions, and its the companies fault mostly for taking just about anyone that can walk to do any job.

Im glad im less than 10 years from retirement, ive never ever felt so dejected in all my working life...god job I actually enjoy what I do.

My immediate manager gave me some friendly advice...I wouldnt say what ive already said to another manager...youre going to touch a nerve...and they wont want to hear it.
 

gbb

Squire
Location
Peterborough
There are lots of other jobs out there. You will almost certainly be the reason why I take one of them.
Take a walk In my shoes first..
I did mean to add but got lost in the rant, as individuals theyre nice people as a rule, but as i said, its mostly managements fault for not getting the right people with the right stuff

If I didnt care it wouldnt be so bad, but I take pride in my work, what I achieve, even in a small way. Right now, its all going to the dogs.

Gissa job...
 

Lullabelle

Banana
Location
Midlands UK
What a waste! For the past couple of weeks you have nagged him to bring in cakes for his birthday (there were 3 others that weekend so he waited) today he brought in cakes-you chose a big chocolate muffin- that was at 9.30 this morning, it is still sitting on your desk and will no doubt be so dry by home time that you throw it in the bin :angry:
 

Speicher

Vice Admiral
Moderator
No, I cannot help you. No, it does not matter how deep the quagmire is, someone else can help you. I have given you my help so many times, but you just criticise me and tell me that I do not know what I am talking about. You tell me so many lies and untruths, and then tell people lies and untruths about me. That is no basis for a relationship.

So find someone whose judgement you trust and ask them to help you. I no longer have the patience, energy or inclination to help you. I have asked the person whose judgement I trust the most and they agree that I have acted above and beyond the call of duty. He also agrees that your lies and disception are unacceptable. Find someone who does not know about your obsfucation and manipulation.
 
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