Then I'm sorry but as well as "Ellie" and her mum being stupid, "Janice" made her choice too: she could have said no but put "Ellie"'s feelings above her own life.
We've got to get over this fear of hurting people's feelings by telling them to stop being farking stupid and taking chances with this virus and our lives — but maybe that's easier for me to say because I've always been blunt so my family would probably expect it.
There are too many pushy people. There are far too many tossers in the world, we don't possibly need any more. We need more Janices and need them to survive this.