Proof? I've just looked up 2 dictionaries and they both define ruler without reference to rule, but not the other way around.
And all of english is from usage. There is no such thing as a "real" word, unless it's a proper noun - which is, but definition, "made up"
People think whatever they learnt first is "real english" and that other usages are wrong, not just different. I'm as guilty of that as anyone else, and just yesterday learnt that, despite the origins of the word, decimate means to wipe out a large proportion of something, not just 10%. If you are going to insist on it meaning 10%, then next month is December, being the 10th month and all.
I have no proof as the proof out there is mostly misguided. GITMO is not a word, but Americans use it as an abbreviation of Guantanamo. There's not even an 'i' in Guantanamo.
The origin of Decimate comes from 'one in every ten'. Roman
Centurions (the clue is in the word) who had fared badly in battle were flogged, crucified and killed to be made an example of and to inflict fear into the rest of the Legion to do better next time. One in every ten was flogged. The 'new' meaning is just a continuation of the origin. Just as December was the 10th month. Words change over time, meaning changes over time, it's the way it is.
From Wikipedia:
December gets its name from the Latin word
decem (meaning
ten) because it was originally the tenth month of the year in the
Roman calendar, which began in March. The winter days following December were not included as part of any month. Later, the months of January and February were created out of the monthless period and added to the beginning of the calendar, but December retained its name.
Ten is also an important number as it leads on to 100, 1000, 100,000 etc. Romans used it as a yard stick of sorts. Easy, round, whole numbers, that could be multiplied.
Rule, for a measuring tool, most likely comes from rule as 'the rule' for its measurement increments. A Universal tool that could be shared among engineers of the time to get precise measurements. It may also come from 'to rule'. A stick or branch used by those of authority to beat or persuade animals or slaves alike. A ruling stick.
Americans use 'then' a hell of a lot when they should be using 'than'. I see it ALL the time. It's incorrect but is allowed and not really corrected. Doesn't mean it's right.
A tape measure is not tape, it's usually metal, unless it's the type used in haberdashery. We ALL call them tape measures, but the ones we use aren't made of tape, but we ALL know what the other is referring to. The origin and meaning have changed over time and usage.
I use a rule, you use a ruler. I don't really care, it's just annoying. Also, English is spelt with a capital E