I didn't miss that at all. My comment trying to state that eating less was NOT the answer and that I ate pretty much what I liked and exercised more to balance it. A lot of people think losing weight or fat is all about reducing food whereas you can lose weight by eating more of the right foods and exercising more.
You're right it isn't all about eating less but in many cases it is,combined with getting off your ass. In this instance it's about eating
more to lose weight and improve energy levels to fuel the exercise. If you aren't eating enough or are eating too much,exercise is pretty pointless.
Food is fuel. It makes total sense that someone who eats well and exercises well would be stronger than someone who didn't eat and didn't exercise.
What reference are you making? Stronger - strength or Stronger - better?
99.9% of us could all do things better by exercising more or eating better but when the goal is only to lose a few pounds, not win the tour de france then why completely avoid the things that make us happy? I've resigned myself to the fact that I'm not going to have the physical build and definition of Fabian Cancellara... I've sacrificed that because I enjoy chocolate, pizza and beer... But I'm still bloody fit and healthy. It's not about one or the other. Compromise is an option.
There is a distinct relationship between things that make us happy and things that make us unhappy. The trick is in moderation which for most removes temptation to binge. Alcohol,chocolate,cakes whatever your vice is - moderate it (read: deserve it!) and work from there.