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Did you mean 3.30am. I would not mind being woken up any time by the person who I have shared a bed with for the last 54 years.
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Yes Mike, sorry. 1.00am & 3.30am is correct. My pm's should've been am's!
We are late (very) night people and are out of sync' with the other retirees in this thread, and in the real world tbh.
We have a great and healthy relationship. It has its moments, I am married to a very passionate, and sometimes fiery, lady. But she is a great lover in the broadest sense of the word ie not just physically.
Sadly, sex is, along with money and death an almost taboo subject to discuss in our culture.
We are very open with our friends about such matters.
Very sadly, amongst our fairly wide group of friends, sexual activity has, with a few exceptions, virtually, or even totally, ceased. And in some cases was never a major factor in the relationship anyway.
Obviously, illness, medical conditions and some natural bodily changes, affect some people as they get older but the sad reality is that many people just give up trying to be romantic, etc. Or maybe attraction falls over the years and desire simply fails?
Another one of those human conditions that doesn't really get enough airtime imo. And when it does it is watered down media fodder.
Remembering all the fuss about the 50 Shades... series of films is instructive. Positioned as being very 'outre' in the media was a sad indictment of our society.
If the limit of a couple's exploration over the years is a pair of fluffy handcuffs and a blindfold then they have lead a very sheltered life!
Anyway, enough of this shocking talk! I am up uncharacteristically early and am enjoying watching the snow float down whilst enjoying a cuppa.
Mrs SD informed me earlier that she is not getting up until at least midday (she means it) and if I want to walk in the snow it will be a solo activity for me.
Have a good day one and all. And stay safe out there!
