On the question of cheese I would like to clear up one thing.
Cheese is always eaten before dessert as dessert is the last dish to be served.
I found that many people in this country are so ignorant about this etiquette.
Now you know.
In all my French holidays (probably 15) I have never noticed that.
To the English, cheese is to be enjoyed as and when we feel like eating it. We are not bound by rules of etiquette.
In that way we are 1 up on your French rules.
Imo of course.