[quote name='Andy in Sig][quote=Arch]Hang on' date=' hang on, I ain't an Auntie just yet - about 2 weeks to go... The pool just happened to be delivered while I was there (unlike the baby!) [b']Sis and her BF have been to lots of classes, done a lot of research, so they are pretty clued up on what to expect etc[/b].
Very exciting though. First time and all that. I may have to start another thread to ask you parents stuff.[/quote]
I love the modern world. Humans have been having babies since the first lady H Sapiens paid the price for a night out with too much fermented Yak milk (or similar) and we still feel the need to do the above![/quote]
I know. Still, she's having it at home because as she pointed out, hospitals are for sick people, and being pregnant isn't an illness...
I think a lot of the stuff is to do with what's offered - apparently our Mum had pethidin (sp?), which can affect the ability to breastfeed - neither of us were breastfed. The connection is something my sister has learned about, but my Mum never knew (I guess they didn't know back then). So as more and more intervention is possible and offered, a mum-to-be maybe needs to know more in order to make the right, natural decision. Conversely, the natural way becomes 'wrong', as we start to think we know better... Our natural instincts have been somewhat dulled I think.