I had my first exchange with a car driver today. Cycling in on my normal route. There is a section on the road where two lanes converge into one. It's tricky enough in a car as people don't seem to want to wait two seconds to let people filter in. I keep to the middle of the lane to give myself plenty of room as inevitably someone tries to get past me even though the road widens back to two lanes about 100 yards further on.
So this morning I heard a few beeps and thought it was someone trying to get past me. Thought nothing of it as they'd be able to do so shortly just up the road. More beeps so this time I looked round to see the car behind me half way into the oncoming lane and the beeping was cars coming the other way beeping at him. He pushed past me and I gestured to him how great I thought his driving was, he gestured back, probably a thumbs up or something.
I knew with the way the lights are that he'd definitely get stopped at the next traffic lights and sure enough 10 seconds later I pulled up alongside him. I again let him know how great his driving was and he wound down the window to tell me that I shouldn't be in the middle of the road blocking traffic. I hadn't realised this so thanked him kindly for the information, promised to modify my behaviour and once again let him know what a great guy he was.
The frank exchange left me feeling good especially when he got stopped at the next set of lights and I went onto the cycle lane and continued my journey. I was further boosted by the thought I've probably ruined his mood for the rest of the day.
I do find it amusing how some drivers can be so aggressive behind the wheel acting all Billy Big Balls and then how quickly they change when the very large baldy bearded man they thought nothing of making w@nker signs at moments earlier stops and asks politely what their issue is.