Todays commute was pretty uneventful however I'm really enjoying having at least the first 5 minutes or so of riding home not being in complete darkness. However it's still pretty cold in the mornings at the moment.
Despite a pretty uneventful commute both ways there was one thing that has made me post today.
My commute is a mixture of rural plus urban roads and now maybe this makes me sound really old fashioned but when for example I pass another cyclist going in the other direction I say good morning or evening & give bit of a nod or a hand gesture of acknowledgement. I must admit that for example I don't do this on one part of my journey once I'm nearly at work because there's a section jam packed with cyclists and I think I'd get out of breath saying hello to everyone.
However on the quieter roads where you only see say one person and on the rural parts of my commute I always say hello. Now throughout the winter I pretty much only see person on either the way to or home from work on the rural part of my commute and we always exchange a greeting and maybe a few extra words which sometimes get lost in the wind.
Tonight though, now that it's a bit nicer, there are more people on my route home and I passed 5 different people going in the opposite direction (the normal guy who says hello wasn't one of them today) and I said hello or evening to all of them and I didn't get a single response back or nod/gesture or anything. This probably now just makes me sound like a really grumpy old man, which to be fair is probably true a fair amount of the time, but in my defence I've had a rubbish week at work, my two year old son is unwell and hasn't been sleeping well which has been getting me up several times a night plus my 4 month old daughter has been doing her best to keep me awake when her brother isn't so perhaps I'm just really over tired and sensitive.
However is it really asking too much just to say something in return instead of just blanking me completely. Now my apologies in advance because I'm tired and being lazy I'm going to resort to some lazy stereotyping and lumping people into the same category as one another which I know that I shouldn't do but I'm really exhausted, running out of brain power and a bit fed up. For starters the other regular guy that I've seen throughout the winter has panniers and my guess is that like me they're going to work and they are the one that always also says hello. Now the 5 people that I saw tonight were all on pretty nice looking racing bikes and none of them had mudguards, racks, panniers, rucksacks or anything to suggest that they were commuting. Therefore I'm making a guess that they were just out to enjoy an evening ride now that the weather is a bit nicer. You'd think that now the weather was nicer they'd be happy to be getting out on the bike and perhaps be courteous enough to return a hello but I just got resolutely ignored by every single one of them.
Maybe the fact that I ride an old and beat up flat bared hybrid did not deem me worthy of acknowledgement but I'd like to think that we're all cyclists together and a friendly hello doesn't do any harm. Perhaps my bike hasn't got anything to do with it and whoever I was & whatever I was riding they wouldn't say hello to a fellow cyclist.
Anyway sorry for a really grumpy long post but I'm just really tired and maybe going a bit delusional now due to sleep deprivation which perhaps left me a bit sensitive to being continuously blanked on todays commute home. Perhaps if even one of them had said hello in return I wouldn't have minded so much but the fact that I was ignored by every single one really got me down.
Sorry for the miserable post and my rant is now over having got this off my check.
Hope that everyones commutes tomorrow go well and hope that everyone has a good weekend if they're not working over it.
John