400bhp
Guru
Try flipping the stem but you could also take the bike and wife back to Decathlon (I know) and get them to fit 80 and/or 70mm stems and see how she fits. Avoid the busy times and I'm sure they'd be happy to oblige. A lot of women's bikes come with short stems so it would not be unusual or cause handing problems.
They only do a 60mm (oversized) stem. They "advised" me about the stability issues (quoted "dangerous") which was one of the reasons I posted up this thread (I was sceptical about the "advice")