Yes, that's me. I definitely feel like I've let life slip away whilst earning enough to buy the house, pay the bills, keep the family warm, dry, and fed, keep the dog in drugs, and build a pension so we can all continue to get by in old age.
Would've love to have done it differently, but never figured out how. It seems to me that once you get on that hamster wheel it's impossible to get off, and you end running harder and harder, for longer and longer. The secret may very well be to never get on it.
That's not to say I don't enjoy the job. There are great days and I work with great people. But I do look forward to a retirement where I have some time of my own to go fishing / cycling / guitar plucking / writing / travelling / photographing / reading or even just staying up with SWMBO beyond nine o'clock. I envy those people who love work enough that they don't long for retirement.