Rolled organic oats here too! Two thirds of a mug of oats, two thirds milk, two thirds water and a good pinch of salt. Boiled and stirred for about 6 or 7 minutes, (the rolled oats need a while to cook) and then spooned out into a big bowl. It can cool down while I wash the pan, which has very little residue if you cook the porridge properly, and then a spoon of sugar stirred in. I quite like it with just salt if I'm in the right mood, but no extra milk on top for me, that would spoil the texture! (oh, I'll make an exception if it's a dollop of Fussells. )
As for all these instant jobs, I've tried several , but Only Reddy Brek has it, and you can't pretend that's porridge, it's a foodstuff all on its own.
May I also point out that porridge is a Scotts dish, so the idea of adding fruit is utterly ludicrous.!