Radchenister
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Or, if we arrange things better, she might grow up developing some hitherto unrecognised form of healthy omnisexuality that is not formed entirely within the constraints of a heterosexist dominant culture. Just a thought.
Now you're talking !
She clearly has her head screwed on. But it's not about whether you find it offensive- it's about the corrosive effects of inequality. What if she wants to be professional a racing cyclist? What if she grows up and the men she meets treat her as a thing and not as a person? What if she is regarded by others as an accessory to the achievements of men?
To be honest, I totally agree with the logic but have already said podium people should go if they offend the majority, whether it really erodes your position or not is down to the individual's perspective IMO; I am prepared to accept it might do this of course but equally others may feel it doesn't ... I don't feel insisting on your view being the absolute position covers the 50 shades of grey in this world and really works in any debate. I still remain sceptical and surprised that podium girls (& boys?) are considered so detrimental - whenever talking to friends who are feeling put upon, I often refer to not acknowledging the power of the perpetrator but admittedly, this is usually as a defensive measure.
If anyone in our family wanted to become a professional cyclist I would look into being able to trust that the infrastructure around them was supportive, is this not improving, I would hope so?... and they would of course have their Mum and Dad behind them.
Put me in charge of organising an event, then I would view it from a different perspective of course - I would likely have a group of young (edit: or old for that matter) males and females do the prize giving role in parallel, perhaps picked from local schools or cycling clubs etc. The young athletes who lit the Olympic flame are a good example for instance: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-19008471
The rest of your questions re oppression and accessorising the position of another might apply if either of them (my children) were to meet a male or female partner equally - we are a liberal family you see - you had accepted the divides in the first response and then disabled them in the second above, which is essentially what I was digging for when discussing the position with Spinney.