[QUOTE 4754974, member: 21629"]A review from a non - racer.
Despite of what was told before the ride, the last part was a compulsory race. Ride as fast as you can otherwise you will be left behind. You cannot keep up the pace? Hey we don't take a f**k, we don't care, that's your problem and your fault, we will leave you to ride on your own. You don't know where to go? F**k you again, that's your problem, we are strong racers and we haven't seen food for 2 weeks, so we race to get hot food and we don't care about those who cannot race and whose who are slower.
As soon as we left the last stopping point everybody started the race and the weaker ones were immediatelly left behind. Luckily the small group of 4 women formed (including me) so I don't feel lost somewhere with no clue at all where to go - all 4 of us were literally lost. We rode all the way to the cafe without seing anybody in the horizon - all riders have already been gone. We had no clue where to go, which turn to take - should we follow this road? Should we take this turn? Where are we? We had to stop and ask people and check the maps on the phone just to find out which way to go. We also took the wrong turn couple of times. Finally we find the cafe - and it was packed with bikes, everybody were already having their food and drinks.
In that case I don't understand what is the point to do a group ride if I have to ask people the way and if I have to check the maps. I will not do this ride anymore and I very and very doubt about other FNRs because I don't want to be left in the middle of the fields in the pitch black night. After this ride I simply don't believe the words "no one is left behind".[/QUOTE]
It is a shame that this is your take on how the ride panned out. Although I wasn't there - I have been many times in the past. I do know what usually happens beyond Faversham.
I don't think it was ever planned to be this way, and I hope that some of the replies above this one, Ausra, reassure you and encourage you to continue to join in and be part of these group rides.