Kirstie said:
So I'm not being paranoid and oversensitive. Well, that's useful to know.
That's what I've done. I have refused to 'meet up to talk about' anything he suggested and on the terms he has suggested them. I have asked for any written information he has instead. I have also reinforced the 'you are a useful business contact' line as well. But as usual I have been too nice, going by what you are all saying.
Well, no, not really. By the sounds of it, he hasn't been offensive, and he hasn't
actually done anything weird or creepy, it only seemed creepy 'cos you didn't initially twig why he was contacting you...most people who fancy someone they know/have met would adopt a similar line, it doesn't mean they're a stalker.