My son and myself often talk about space....
Its interesting, it's thought-provoking and we talked about life here and the possibility somewhere else?
Watching 'How our Solar System Works' uou realise in the billions of years in its creation, the myriad of circumstances that gave us what we have, such as the theory that Jupiter (I think it was) , early in the systems creation was much closer to the sun and due to its size, probably cleared the space of debris between the sun and beyond Mars. Had it (Jupiter) not been there our planet would have been continually smashed by asteroids etc and life here would have been unlikely
Add in the myriad of other circumstances external and on our planet itself, the chances (imho) of other human like civilisations existing are remote to say the least (again imho)
There.must be life out there...but not as we know it Jim