If you don't want to mix with other people, then don't socialise. No-one is forcing you to.
'Spoons has been really busy lately on the normally quiet days because of the half price food incentive. There's been more customers than normal in at times, not less. They have put some sanitisers out (which hardly anyone uses) , track & trace forms (that hardly anyone fills in) and dividing screens up here and there, but most of us just drink with whoever we normally sit with, regardless of any stuff about bubbles and household mixing. People are being sensible when waiting to be served, not crowding at the bar, and generally sticking to their own regular social groups.
There hasn't been any explosion in virus cases and we've been doing that for over five weeks, which tends to suggest a lot of the doom-mongering was just the chattering classes with too much time on their hands to spend pontificating. The fact that the current death figures are low and staying low tells you all you need to know that most of the increase in cases is coming from increased testing, not increased infection rates, and a few dozen deaths per day from one particular cause in a 60+ million population is not even worth talking about. The hysteria and risk aversion surrounding the virus is far worse than the actual virus.
The post was really about the huge variation in places.
Forcing doesn't really have much to do with it. A subtle clue was I went to check out a venue for other people. There was a reason why they didn't do it. I'm fairly relaxed about socialising outdoors, with very small groups of people, especially ones that I judge to be lower risk. Most people I know don't want/can't socialise. If you ask people to go to x they will say they can't travel. Other people don't have the time. Others are very wary of meeting anyone outside their household. Some will just plain tell you they've got used to staying indoors. Some are having a nightmare working from home and are busier or more childcare/other caring commitments.
I have one friend who is socialising pretty much as normal, get invited to a pub on a regular basis and he's getting cheesed off and the invites are slowly dying off. That's it. Nobody else really wants/can socialise much.
Pubs reopened on 3rd July. I would give it another month or so of virus levels staying the same before I feel like you do.