I have just got a reply from one of them, hooray!!
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have just bombarded him with about 60 years worth of questions!
I hope it all gives you what you hope to find.
These guest rooms I have been killing myself over building for visiting relatives is also a bit of a family 'issue'.
It is for my half brother and his daughter.
My half brother and sister, from my Dad's first marriage, only ever communicated with my Dad, ignoring my mum, my brother, and me. Dad's ex wife blamed my Mum for taking him away from her and brought their kids up to despise us and ignore us. Since she died my half brother has got in touch and wants to get to know us (me and Mum since my brother has died). He has visited once before on his own. My half sister still ignores us and only calls to speak to 'Dad'. If my Mum answers the phone she just demands 'I want my Father!' and says no more to my Mum.
The stupid thing is, Dad divorced his first wife because she left him and took his kids and his money*. He then came to England, after a stint in the REME, to get a fresh start and met my Mum some years after. So not Mum's fault at all.
I am in two minds about my half brother. He emails, with family news and updates. I am not always prompt in my replies. I have little interest in him and even less in common.
He is very very religious (though not as much as my cousin who bothers God more then the Pope does) and that doesn't help as we have little frame of reference for day to day views on life. I can't talk to him, one to one, about anything that matters as his responses are very much of a 'It's God's will' sort of thing, but at least he doesn't present it so much when in company.
However, he knows that I have been very ill, and yet still phoned expecting me to get two rooms ready at short notice.
And I have to pick them up at the airport at silly o'clock in the morning.
Anyway, what I meant to say was that there may be reasons for the delayed replay and the guarded lack of information at this stage. I reckon my half brother and I and still have a lot of barriers to break down on both sides, but God may be helping him more then me on that one.
*This is the story Mum knows so may not be all of it.