'eventually' is excellent!
Ha ha - I understand '
eventually', only too well! I took 3 or 4
weeks to seek help when I was ill with my first Pulmonary Embolism (PE).
My story about the drunks in A&E was from the night I was diagnosed with my second PE. My sister came up a week ago and reminded me what happened that night...
I had been feeling ill for over a week but despite that had gone down to visit her for a family party at her house in Towcester. I got worse through the evening of the party and couldn't handle socialising so I went and sat on her stairs for some peace and quiet. She came to look for me and asked why I was being such an antisocial misery so I told her that I suspected that I was clotting up again. She asked what my doctor had said. I told her that I intended to go to my GP after I returned to Yorkshire a few days later but hadn't seen anyone yet - I got the
WTF treatment! The guests left an hour later and she insisted on driving me over to Northampton General A&E...
A year later, the second PE came on. My sister drove me to her local hospital. I got to the reception desk and the woman there did the triage thing ('Go home', 'Join the queue', 'EMERGENCY!'). The conversation went something like this ...
Receptionist: Hello, how can I help you?
Me: Hi. Er, I think that I am becoming seriously ill with a pulmonary embolism.
Receptionist (clearly thinking 'Dr Google strikes again ...'): Oh, so you have medical training do you?
Me: No, but I do have a very vivid memory of almost dying of a pulmonary embolism a year ago and I have exactly the same symptoms now - extreme shortness of breath, heart racing for hours, alternating bouts of shivering and sweating, nausea, and feeling faint!
Receptionist: (Under breath - whoops ...) Please take a seat over there and I will make sure that you are seen very quickly!
Tested and admitted in less than 3 hours.
I am on warfarin for life now and need regular blood tests. I chatted to one nurse while she was taking the blood sample and it turned out that she is a fellow PE sufferer and warfarin user. She told me that she had been doing some gardening with her husband when she suddenly felt ill. She said something to him like "
Darling, you need to get the car out and take me to A&E - NOW!!!" He asked her why and she replied that she was fairly sure that she had a pulmonary embolism and was in danger of dropping dead at any moment! [NB One third of emergency PE patients DO die from the clots!] She obviously knew what she was talking about, and as a result got treatment soon after falling ill.
Similar to what was mentioned in one of the posts above... There was a big sign up in A&E explaining to patients why some patients 'jump the queue'. I was one example - the happy drunks with the mangled legs were there when I arrived, still waiting when I was tested for clots, and were STILL waiting when I got my results and was admitted. It didn't seem to bother them, but if the staff felt the need to put a notice up explaining the system, then they obviously get a lot of abuse for it.