@Svendo, Most of the time the valve makes it harder to get the last bit of the tyre on except in a situations where wider/larger volume tyres are involved. This is because the way the valve is bonded to the tube makes a a stiffer springer area that has the effect of pushing the tyre away from the bead, even if it is pushed right up into the tyre. Any small amount of outward pressure makes a noticeable difference in how easier it is to get the tyre over the rim. Also on a very tight tyre you need both hands to push the bead over the rim, you have no way to push the valve up without risk of damaging things.
Interesting... I wonder if the effect you describe (which makes perfect sense) or the stiffer spring making getting the beads into the well harder is larger and therefore makes getting the tyre on harder.
BTW the valve pushing up thingy is once the tyre is fitted, to ensure it's not trapped under the bead before inflating.
My other top tip (which I made up so YMMV) is to inflate the tube a bit before fitting the tyre, making pinching less likely, and deflating as necessary once you get to the hard bit.
As it happens, especially by the side of the road, I'll use a lever to gently pop the bead over if it's being really awkward and/or raining. I try to use my 'mechanical sensitivity' to not damage the rim and have been fine so far. If it's sunny and I'm not late for work I'll be all 'zen and the art..' about it and enjoy the process of doing it properly.