Which CC member do you think you'd like to meet?

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Drago

Legendary Member
I dont like what they say, I ignore it and/or them move on. Thats my method for every on from politicians through to some CC'ers.

It's not at all difficult, but some people do seem to be maladjusted and have an intense fascination with those they claim they don't like or vehemently disagree.

Why is that? I don't know. Perhaps there aren't enough positive things in their own lives to keep them occupied, and I would pity them for that but don't because they'd probably complain about that too :laugh:
 

yello

Guest
Well you say that, but we've had more than a few people saying they really don't care who they p*ss off .

Well, I'm no fan of the 'call a spade a spade' approach either.... not least because I like to think of shovels and the like... and that's before I get on to pelles and bêches... but I do think there's a difference between 'not caring' and 'not intending'. I'm quite sure both @Drago and @SydZ don't care if they offend but doubt they set out with the sole intention to do that.

I'm quite sure both (and others beside - hell, I'll even include myself in this!) know full well that when we post something that it mightn't meet with universal approval... but that's the price you pay for having firm beliefs. I'm pretty sure I'm preaching to the converted with that one though.

Upsetting someone deliberately is really quite easy, if you're so minded, and says more about the person doing it than anything else. So I guess we could talk about presentation. My own personal preference would be for people to phrase their beliefs in a manner that at least suggested the acceptance of other possibilities, and less of the 'I am right and call a spade a spade' .

The analogy that springs to mind is opening a door; one can turn the lock, turn the handle and gently open it to ensure that nobody is alarmed by it's opening - or you can put your boot through it and rip it off its hinges. Both achieve the same objective but you'll definitely see the different approaches used on here!
 
Did someone mention 'dreamies' :hyper:
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There's an aubergine with your name on it, if you ever make it out west, in summer :becool:

We had a running joke going on one thread that we'd do a forum meet up in the Outer Hebrides, but the proviso was that we would all have to come dressed as our regular avatars.

Ah, what a stunning cat :wub:

As long as I can make aubergine parmigiana, then yes, I'll bring dreamies. And a squeaky mouse, feather tickle stick and a shoe lace. This girl's gotta keep in practice for all those post-covid judging engagements. :blush: I'll leave the white coat behind, though...
 

yello

Guest
Three whole goddarn years.. :wacko:
Maybe it's time to take a break and go do something more productive???

Hmm, yes, I think I've long since overstayed my welcome too, but I take breaks every now again. Think I'm due another in truth.
There can be something involving about here though. I've never really worked out why but, in truth, don't really want to spend too much time thinking about the whys of it. Sometimes it's just because it's cold and damp outside and I don't want to get on with the gardening. Sometimes it's because I'm not feeling to well and it passes the time. And sometimes it's a bit of both. I disappear (from here) when my wife comes in from her workshop, we make dinner and listen to something on the radio... so I figure there's hope for me yet :laugh:
 
I'm reminded of this quote.

“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so farking what."

[I saw hate in a graveyard -- Stephen Fry, The Guardian, 5 June 2005]”
 
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BrumJim

Forum Stalwart (won't take the hint and leave...)
I'll just warn you, I am *very* geeky when it comes to motor racing. :blush:

Maybe I am the very model of a modern major-general... :whistle:
I've been following motor racing since I was about 8, my friend and I pretending to have F1 races around the school playground (no one wanted me to be on their football team!), me driving a McLaren and my friend driving a Lotus. On Wednesday Autocar came through the letter box, and I read the F1 reports before my Dad came home (it was his magazine). Also around that time we got our hands on a Blue Peter Annual which contained an article where they visited the Lotus team in Hethel. I think this was in the days of skirts and gound effect.

Some years ago I bought my Dad a book for Christmas. It was by a mechanic in the Benetton team the year that Senna died, Schumacher won the World Championships and a fire occured in the Benetton pits caused by them fiddling with the fuelling rig. Quite an action packed year. This helped me better understand how an F1 team worked in those days. Fascinating book.

Prepared to go as geeky as you wish.
 
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Drago

Legendary Member
I'm reminded of this quote.

“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so farking what."

[I saw hate in a graveyard -- Stephen Fry, The Guardian, 5 June 2005]”

I would like to add @ClichéGuevara to my list of CC'ers to meet, and Stephen Fry should he ever join the forum.
 
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yello

Guest
I’ve learned over the years that every time I say something there is a possibility I will offend someone, particularly on the subject of death, as an example (I simply am unable to understand why it upsets people). Quite often I will say nothing if I’m really unsure. If I wasted any more energy worrying over those I did offend I’d never stop.

I get that, it's a balancing act. And I respect the bit I bolded.

I do sometimes acknowledge to myself that it's simply not worth me stirring the pot with something that I know will be contentious, but it obviously depends on the subject. I can actually find it cathartic to exercise restraint; if you can predict where something might go, decide that what you've got to say is only your opinion and (most importantly) it doesn't matter anyway.... then why bother?
 

Drago

Legendary Member
I've been following motor racing since I was about 8, my friend and I pretending to have F1 races around the school playground (no one wanted me to be on their football team!), me driving a McLaren and my friend driving a Lotus. On Wednesday Autocar came through the letter box, and I read the F1 reports before my Dad came home (it was his magazine). Also around that time we got our hands on a Blue Peter Annual which contained an article where they visited the Lotus team in Hethel. I think this was in the days of skirts and gound effect.

Some years ago I bought my Dad a book for Christmas. It was by a mechanic in the Benetton team the year that Senna died, Schumacher won the World Championships and a fire occured in the Benetton pits caused by them fiddling with the fuelling rig. Quite an action packed year. This helped me better understand how an F1 team worked in those days. Fascinating book.

I recently discovered that my Dad's very first job was working for the Vanwall F1 team.

He's an engineer and metallurgist, but hes a bit vague about his role in the team as a 16 year old and I suspect it may have involved a broom. Even so, the tales he tells of F1 in the early 60's are well worth listening to.
 
I've been following motor racing since I was about 8, my friend and I pretending to have F1 races around the school playground (no one wanted me to be on their football team!), me driving a McLaren and my friend driving a Lotus. On Wednesday Autocar came through the letter box, and I read the F1 reports before my Dad came home (it was his magazine). Also around that time we got our hands on a Blue Peter Annual which contained an article where they visited the Lotus team in Hethel. I think this was in the days of skirts and gound effect.

Some years ago I bought my Dad a book for Christmas. It was by a mechanic in the Benetton team the year that Senna died, Schumacher won the World Championships and a fire occured in the Benetton pits caused by them fiddling with the fuelling rig. Quite an action packed year. This helped me better understand how an F1 team worked in those days. Fascinating book.

Prepared to go as geeky as you wish.

Me, I've been following motor racing since I was seven. I was hooked by *that* moment at Paddock in the 1982 British Grand Prix. :blush: I used to ride my bicycle around pretending to win the British Grand Prix in a Toleman-Hart. :blush: And I will say that Mansellmania rather passed me by - it's *always* been the Warwick brothers for me. :wub: Well, throw in the fact that from a young girl / teen's perspective, two of those three made far better pin-ups than the other... :whistle: I couldn't afford Autosport at the time, so I used to read it in the newsagents every Thursday morning on the way to school. Until I went to senior school, and my pocket money then upped to the giddy heights of £2.50 a week!

I should have that Blue Peter annual somewhere then, as I used to collect them. The ground-effect cars were pretty interesting pieces of engineering, and it's kind of odd to see things come full circle, as they're going back to ground effect technology for next year. That book - "A Mechanic's Tale" is by Stevie Matchett. There is a copy on the bookshelf behind me. :smile:

My own connection with the sport. My MEng was sponsored by Reynard Cars, where I was doing research on their then ChampCar programme. I then did a PhD in impact testing and strength of materials, sponsored by McLaren. I've been lucky to work with guys like Mark Preston, Guillaume Roquelin, Brian O'Rourke and the FIA Technical Delegate, Jo Bauer. I then fell into the media side of things quite by accident and did a ten year stint as a journalist and photographer, providing photos and copy for most of the major publications.

These days, I've taken a back seat and merely maintain an archive. It started out as a schoolgirl scrapbook, and sort of... grew. :blush:
 
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