I wouldn't worry overly about the derailleur being rotated anticlockwise-of-vertical on the big/big combination (which you shouldn't generally use in any case), as long as it's not fouling-up in small/small (ditto regarding use) - it's a compromise.
Another two links will probably be too many, and the small/small combo will eat itself.
If you want much better handling of wide ranges, look into MTB mechs and longer rear cages.