When would you like 'to go' ?
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No, 10 months for me and I still cry most days.
I sometimes think it might have been better if we didn't love each other so much.
There you go, you have me blubbing again......your fault
Slick
Guru
I suppose everyone's experience Is different, but my experience is you just learn to talk about it less as you realise how uncomfortable it leaves others and you just get better at hiding it.
oldwheels
Legendary Member
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- Isle of Mull
Does anyone remember a TV film with Brian Blessed as the lead character which was a long time ago?
It was science fiction set in some unthinkable future.
Everyone had a set time in this world and on the due date you presented yourself at the appropriate place and that was the end of you.
In this case they were all dressed in togas and there were facilities for a farewell party which was the main feature of this film.
At the due time a bell rang and BB and his wife who had volunteered to go with him were ushered into a lift which closed and that was the end.
It was science fiction set in some unthinkable future.
Everyone had a set time in this world and on the due date you presented yourself at the appropriate place and that was the end of you.
In this case they were all dressed in togas and there were facilities for a farewell party which was the main feature of this film.
At the due time a bell rang and BB and his wife who had volunteered to go with him were ushered into a lift which closed and that was the end.
welsh dragon
Thanks but no thanks. I think I'll pass.
numbnuts
Legendary Member
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- Gone over the hill and far away
No, 10 months for me and I still cry most days.
I sometimes think it might have been better if we didn't love each other so much.
There you go, you have me blubbing again......your fault
I was only thinking that myself the other day, but it is better to have loved and lost, then never lover at all.
oldwheels
Legendary Member
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- Isle of Mull
No idea of the title but I don't think so.
oldwheels
Legendary Member
- Location
- Isle of Mull
My condolences to @screenman.
My own wife died 8 years and 6 months ago and I think of her often still. It does get a bit easier but the grief never really goes away.
I drive past her grave frequently and always glance over to make sure the white roses she requested before she died are still evident. I go and make a physical check every month with fresh flowers. They have to be artificial ones as the red deer eat anything else tho' they never touch the snowdrops I planted.
My own wife died 8 years and 6 months ago and I think of her often still. It does get a bit easier but the grief never really goes away.
I drive past her grave frequently and always glance over to make sure the white roses she requested before she died are still evident. I go and make a physical check every month with fresh flowers. They have to be artificial ones as the red deer eat anything else tho' they never touch the snowdrops I planted.
I am going to take that on board, thank you I think it will help me.
ebikeerwidnes
Guru
- Location
- Z’ha’dum
I think it is best to find people that understand when you need to talk
My wife knows that sometimes I just need to mention my parents and it is OK
I also sometime get all upset when I think of my daughter - who I have not seen for many years
oh - and when someone plays Puff the Magic Dragon - I just feel so sorry for the poor dragon
although that seems to just be me!
but she knows that I need to say something from time to time and she keeps an eye on whether I am upset or just mentioning it
Accy cyclist
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- The hills of Accrington
Form an orderly queue those who wish to pull the trigger
That's you and those who've liked your post now cut out of my last will and testament. 🧐
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That's you and those who've liked your post now cut out of my last will and testament. 🧐
Oh no, I didn't mean it. I love you.
BTW how much are you worth ?
Just out of interest like
Accy cyclist
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- The hills of Accrington
Oh no, I didn't mean it. I love you.
BTW how much are you worth ?
Just out of interest like
Well, my perceived wealth is vast, due to how folk see me due to my style and sense of dress. 🧐
My actual wealth is far less, but still not to be sniffed at!!🧐
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Well, my perceived wealth is vast, due to how folk see me due to my style and sense of dress. 🧐
Can you bring it in your heart to forgive me and include me in your will.......pretty please
Forget all those other CC members as they will just be after your wealth whereas I am genuine
You may not realise it but after my wife died your words helped me. I had felt as though I was the only person it had ever happened to.
I had 'very brief' suicidal thoughts but they are fading away as time passes.
