Thinking of the posts re selling up and moving after taking value from the property.
I know a number of people who have done this and to be honest it leaves me baffled. After 33 years in the same house many of our closest friends are immediate neighbours. We have supported each other for all this time. Why would we want to leave our friends just when we have more time together and might, but hopefully not, need even more support.
Two examples here, of one couple in our immediate close circle who moved 200 miles primarily on the husband's wishes. On retiring moved almost immediately, various issues resulted in significant financial problems surrounding the move, to solve this one has had to return to work and they have had to sell up again and move in to a suburban 3 bed semi, a far cry from their previous properties. Nothing wrong with 3 bed suburban properties but a huge change from rural living for 35 years. The wife is deeply unhappy with the huge change late in life.
Another example of a friend whose wife has terminal cancer. He commented a few weeks ago that they had always appreciated the support of our circle but only now truly understood how much it means when things go wrong.