Interesting thread, some great replies so far.
My take on this - it is all about control of carbs....sadly
1) Do not give a moments thought to the scales - bin them. Or if you must - weigh yourself once a month. Do not target being a weight in future. Target body fat percentage to work towards. Anything from 12% - 16% you will look good.
2) Invest in a cheapo pair of body fat calipers. Measure yourself in the exact same spots once a week at the same time in the AM - does not need to be a percentage, even a mm measurement would do. As long as the numbers are dropping each week. You will notice fat loss with your clothes. Really, the best device that will never, ever lie in the fat is the mirror! Lots of advice on the web on this.
3) Look into low carb diets. Now I am not talking Atkins as that is too extreme. However, I follow a carb-cycling regime, where on occasion I will go low carb Mon-Fri. Then on a Saturday a carb up. I am not talking 5 loaves of bread and a 12 bottles of beer here
- just a replenishment of glycogen stores. Or if a long ride is on the cards, carb up (not excessively) the night before. Then POST exercise only - some complex carbs, from fruit or veg. Or carb up in the AM, or drop the carbs as the day goes on. Lots of different approaches here.
Google ćarb timing for more advice on this
Once a month, or if low carbing is becoming too hard or you hit a plateau - throw in a cheat meal. You want to eat mashed potato - have it. You want ice cream - do it. You want rice - eat it. Go wild. Your metabolism will be fired up after it. No cheat meals all the time though - keep these for when it becomes too much of a slog!
4) Booze - when you drink you will never lose weight, as alcohol will be burned as a fuel source by your metabolism before fat. So - the booze intake is at a minimum.
Hope this helps. Good luck....