To answer both of you, I'm trying everything and still not finding any balance!
I started off with cardio 3 times a week, either gym or at home, this made no difference to anything. So I moved to cardio and weights, which was enjoyable, but finding the time to visit the gym a lot was difficult. Around this point I started eating more (my appetite went from one proper meal a day and a snack to waking up hungry and eating small meals all day). So then I tried cycling with the idea that it fits into my working day a lot better and no babysitters are required. All good, but the appetite is still there - tried a lot of fruit and salads which just made me even more hungry, tried eating clean, loads of veg with some fish and lean meats which still left me hungry, so now I'm adding wholewheat breads and brown pasta to my diet and it's curbing my appetite a bit but not exactly making any weight come off! Average day at the moment is a banana or some kind of fresh fruit smoothie in the morning, cycle to work, hungry by about 10.30am so some porridge or oat cereal then, usually soup and brown bread or turkey with veg for lunch and by the time I'm cycling home at 3pm I'm feeling completely out of energy. Then I go home and cook something nice (last night was a mix of salmon and sweet potato with spinach) and am simply tired and still hungry all evening, and end up snacking on whatever is in my kitchen. Ugh. Starting to think it's not even the exercise or diet making me tired/hungry and that something else might be up.
Any advice appreciated, would absolutely love to have less of an appetite and more energy.