Blimey lulubel have I hit a nerve or what? In future I'll mind my own business!
Sorry. That probably didn't come across the way I meant it. I'm just frustrated, and I know it's because it's so different here that neither of us can fully appreciate each other's worlds.
It was a bit drizzly and damp here yesterday, and my ride was awful. I was coughing and choking and couldn't breathe properly - that kind of damp isn't great for my asthma - and I can't imagine what it was like in Cornwall riding in those kind of conditions most of the time, even though it was only three years ago that we left. In the same way, I don't expect you can imagine sun so intense that you get a minor burn from brushing your leg against the top tube of your bike during your ride, but that's what happened to me in the summer.
If I was ever MTBing in high mountains (Alps, Pyrenees, etc) or somewhere that I really didn't know on my own, I'd probably put a rack on the bike so I could carry a rack bag with everything but the kitchen sink in it, so I was prepared for every possible eventuality. But round here - and I admit there is probably some element of thinking nothing will happen on your own doorstep - I know quite a lot about how things work, where you need to go to find water, etc, so I don't feel the need to be so well equipped. I am putting together a first aid kit, complete with all the usual stuff, plus steroid tablets (which I need if I get an allergic reaction, and carry anyway) and sticky stitches so I can patch myself up if I need to, until I can get proper medical care. I also have the advantage of mobile phone coverage being really good here because they have a lot of antennae to cover the areas between the mountains, and I haven't found anywhere yet where I couldn't get a signal, which is pretty reassuring - as long as I remember to charge my phone
And what I said about coming home was absolutely true. If I killed myself, I wouldn't be in a position to care - obviously - but there are people at home who need me. I also think, in general - and I know there are exceptions - women are naturally more cautious than men. It's probably something to do with hormones. So, while I do fall off a lot, it's all pretty minor. I'm far too careful - and far too scared of heights - to put myself in a position where the fall will be long and/or hard.