I’ve had similar problems fettling rhe Indexing on my MtB, (a 1x11 )
I swapped the cassette to an 11 speed 50t, d’lr, shifter and chain to XT , an extender had to be fitted so the top jockey could clear the 50t ring, it is after a lot of fiddling just about 98% there , I am going to go on a jaunt around the Park trails this morn to see how it fares , I did read before I took this swap out onboard that it could be problematic , at best now it goes click by click from 11t to 50t , going the other way pops down to the 9th then ok all the way to 11t , if I correct the tension to get it go 11ring to 10th ring then going up it will not shift properly around the high speed cogs ,
So I have adjusted to shift up to the 50t and can live with the skip over the 10th cog to the 9th