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hanging-on in quiet desperation ...
- Location
- Kirton, Devon.
barq said:Oh, I've thought of another one... It's technically off-topic because this is about things that annoy you that shouldn't, whereas I'm standing behind this one!
People being too casual about arrangements. I've really noticed this since I moved down south (sorry if that sounds a bit sweeping, but I swear it never used to happen to me in Brum). People just seem to feel free to blow you out at the last minute and not even bother to let you know. The other variant is where you try and arrange something and people say "Yeah, I'll just have too see, let's just play it by ear...". On the face of it sounds fair enough, but in reality tends to mean "I'll just see if anything better turns up, and if not they you are my fall-back plan."
Get better aquaintances...
I think it's pretty shabby, an agreement's an agreement in my book, if I cannot make a gathering for some GOOD reason, it's only decent manners to call the host/others and let them know.
I just think it's part of a general malaise in social manners and abilities, as my father -in-law would say "people just don't know how to go on..." and he would know.