Do you just hate listening to music or podcasts?
I can pause the music, switch track or station, or just trigger voice and ask google to do something for me. In return, the car controls my speed, checks constantly for potential obstacles, automatically slows and flashes red lights everywhere if it thinks a collision might happen, steers the car so it stays in lane - and if it detects a medical emergency and the driver doesn't appear to respond, it will slow down and stop at the side of the road with the hazards on.
Do you not talk to your passengers? If I get a message, google reads it and asks "do you want to reply". I say "yes". It asks what my message is "I'll be home at about 8.30". "Do you want to send?" "Yes".
So , you appear to have an 'Intelligent Car ' ,that may or may not be self driving.
Such vehicles ,to my mind with AI intelligence are not safe.
Whilst riding my motorbike, I had to make a manoeuvre for my own safety, following was a Tesla, one of those semi autonomic self driving cars,, which at the same time I was about to change lane, 'it' decided to overtake me, I had to cancel my manoeuvre, to avoid a collision.
Now I do not consider autonomous self driving cars safe ,if most other cars are not similarly equipped, whilst it may provide a 'safe' environment for the 'driver' , it doesn't necessarily for other road users.
My point is if you're driving then , one should be in full control of the vehicle, not delegate certain aspects to a computer, at the same time,all these modern driving aids being fitted to modern cars, can be usefull, but only in situation where it will bring the car safely to a stop, without impeding collisions.
Of course I fully expect you to argue against my aversion to autonomous cars, they would be suitable if everyone has one, not just a few.
In computing , if you put crap in, you will get crap out , Simple.
If you travelling ,driving a vehicle, having all these safety systems does not mean you can abdicate driving duties to a bunch of silicon chips.....