Now our two have properly left (with proper careers in the Old Smoke!), we are loving the ‘empty nest syndrome’ 🤣We know several ladies of the same mindset - at least 2 came under considerable pressure from their families and friends to conform and have children; they didn't and don't regret it.
Over the years we have seen a number of marriages fail following the addition of children into the relationship dynamic - 'hot' gf/wife becomes a tired mum, weekends & evenings filled with dull kiddy stuff and boom, the magic disappears with inevitable results.
It's similar at the other end of the age spectrum, we are watching more than a few couples who are struggling with 'empty nest syndrome'. Their children have left home creating a rip in the her/him relationship glue and they are wondering where the 'they' of yesteryear went - desperately sad to witness.
I suspect it may be many years before they decide to have kids, if they ever do….we really enjoy socialising with them, be a shame to spoil it with pesky kids, & neither are particularly interested in populating the planet any further right now 🤪
A day there in a couple of weeks because DD has tickets to the Proms to take MrsMikeIOW: I’ll go have a cheeky beer and natter with TheBoy. He will no doubt regale me with the latest in his tech world….was talking AI image generation earlier today….now I might have had a career in IT, but he is way deeper than I ever was on the coding stuff….I’ll Ty not to let my eyes glaze over too much 🤪🤷♂️