Daves, as bad as things may be, your Mrs are not alone. Nor are you. I am very angry at the effect my wife's cancer has had on our lives and our plans for retirement so I try to focus instead on what is good about each day and enjoy our time together as much as possible. I totally get not wanting posts to be depressing and grim, but one of the things I like about this thread is the honesty I find here.
The snow has passed and while there is plenty left the sun is out for the first time in a week and the snow will begin to go away. I have been shovelling wet heavy snow for at least a couple of hours each day and to my surprise my back hasn't given me problems. The shovelling has certainly given me an appetite, though. It will be a while before biking will be a good idea, as the side streets and bike paths really require a fat bike.
Later today I will head out to get some meds for the dog and maybe hit the library. If Mrs 12 wants to go we will get her a choolate dipped ice cream cone which she really loves.
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