After some 20+yrs of Friday night binge drinking, remembering nothing of the evening, wasting the remaining weekend and spending money I didn't have, I stopped drinking. Been tee total for over 10yrs now. My method was somewhat unorthodox but worked a treat. Instead of going into town with the mates, I started going nighclubbing instead. A proper dance club called Passion in Coalville where Trance was the main music played. After a few weeks of adjusting to the friendly atmosphere I started getting into the music and the DJ's etc. It was hard to spot a drunken person here, most peeps were either off their trolly on drugs, or spent all night dancing, or both. The group I went with were a similar age to me (early 40's) and we weren't the oldest there either. Had some of the best nights out ever going to Passion, met some beautiful people too, and dancing all night and never even bought an alcoholic drink in the 4-5yrs I went there. Ok, so I got a bit wasted but never felt as rough as I used to after a Friday night binge.
My point being, sometimes you just need to change your environment, and/or the company you keep.
My point being, sometimes you just need to change your environment, and/or the company you keep.