Andy in Germany
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- Location
- Rottenburg am Neckar
Ah people. Strange things. Most are grateful for help but some just want to dump their problems on you for you to fix. And will complain if you don't. Will be volunteering at my local charity again later today and can guarantee, I will have a least one of the "you sort it" brigade. They will be told as politely as possible what the steps are to sort it themselves. We have the catchy term of "empowering the client" - or in practical terms FRO.
Had an Iraqi in one day with a HO/RT1 from the local police - aka a 'producer'. He was driving a taxi without a licence and therefore invalid insurance. Could I have a word with the local police to sort it? Perhaps in Iraq that was possible, but explained this is not the way here. Explained what to do when he went to court and how to plead his case to get the minimum fine/points.
Bosses though as more difficult to sort as some want to save everyone. We get a grant every 6 months for ad-hoc problems that need a small amount of cash to sort e.g. £300 for a washing machine. Problem is that this winter's grant and part of next spring's grant has already been promised as the boss can't say no.
Perhaps your client and your boss need empowered.
We see the same, most need a bit of help and then go and make a success of it, some can't for various health related reasons, some think they're 'too old' because in their home country they would be considered old, and should be allowed to retire, but have a good 20 years to go in a German context; and a few just think that the state is "rich" and should pay for their lifestyle. The last is as common among Germans as migrants, to be fair.
I remember one client who got a speeding ticket in north Germany coming with a similar request; he wanted a Lawyer to fight it, but was firmly told to pay the fine.
Thankfully my colleagues have enough training and/or experience to know we can't save everyone, and not should we; we provide opportunities for people to sort themselves out. Germany has a strong cultural expectation that people take responsibility for themselves; this in our context is "empowerment", because if we do anything we make the client dependent on us. My boss is especially good at this, and is probably the strictest of all of us...