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simongt

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In what way?
Yup, envy descending into snidism.
 

Pale Rider

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I don't think you have (I know you havnt ) any evidence anyone is 'faking it'.

No need to get upset, I was referring to the wider population, which obviously includes posters on here but is not limited to them.

The OP mentions the status game, faking it is just another way to describe that.

I couldn't say whether any posters on here are faking it, and I care even less.

We have had believable stories from posters who know other people who are living beyond their means/playing the status game/faking it, so it certainly happens.

Nor is it anything new.

More than 40 years ago I worked in a local garage in a relatively prosperous area of Worcestershire.

There was a 'county set', some of whom were genuinely loaded, but there were also those desperate to appear part of that social scene, but who didn't have the poke, land, or family background required to properly fit in.
 

Jameshow

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You are lucky. I’m watching squirrels and digging up their nut stores for food.

That's nothing I've just wrestled a hedgehog for a slug, tasty it was too....!
 

Jameshow

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Both pride and envy are a great menace imo.

Each is corrosive upon society, communities friendships.

Better to be content with what you have without needing to brag or covert.
 

gzoom

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Better to be content with what you have without needing to brag or covert.

2nd bit is true but not the first.

The world we live in isn't build on being satisfied or happy with the status quo. I know some people are comfortable with the thought human civilisation would be in a better place is we had stayed living in caves and trees, but I'm not one of them.

There are no end of proverbs/quotes from our civilisations most recognised pioneers, Edison, Einstein etc all essentially urging us to be inquestive, explore, and not be defeated by failure.

Some have literally given their lives to challenge existing ignorance

"But the Earth does move!" Is on Galleos tomb.

The biggest mistake I think is to link finances with 'success', we should be judged based on our actions and achievements versus money. The two are linked, but the correlation isn't 100%, not even close. We should teach our children to dream big not for money but for ideology, but inevitably the dream becomes inseparable from money :sad:.

The fact there is a 'money matters' section on this forum shows our obsession with something that in reality has no purpose in advancing our society. Why don't we have a section on 'success matters'?
 
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