On starting out a year or two back i got a hybrid (giant CRS) on the cycle to work scheme - wanted something of reasonable quality,'see how it goes' etc. never saw myself as a road bike rider but was open minded.
I decided after many rides to just keep the CRS as I'm more of a casual, leisure rider, whereas my mates tend to do 70 miles on a sunday, sportives, full on riding. I joined in for a while and whilst definately enjoyable if hard work, i decided its not for me - i'll do the scenic rides, stop for tea, cake and nice views etc.
After a nasty injury the bike was in the garage for a year - given it a quick once over and its tip top, chain still well lubed etc.
Also have all the lycra gear but again, partly because i'm a bit of a big bloke and cant be bothered to reach and maintain a high level of fitness (draining full time job + in a band which takes a lot of time), i decided to go for the mountain bike kind of gear - looser fit, 3/4/ length shorts etc - all still bike specific and very comfortable but just an altogether more relaxed look. Not that i care one jot about looking like the only gay in the village in lycra, its just my preference....and i've learned over the years with any form of excrsise - gym, swimming, walking etc...i'm an 'all or nothing' person so i end up going hell for leather and never maintain it beyond about year....
.....so i'll stick with my hybrid bike and 'relaxed fit' attitude to clothes and life. It's all good though and whatever floats your cycling boat is a good antidote to the work/home/work/home drudgery of life