New one on me that. When my daughter got married I paid for everything,.
It was the same when my sister got married (the first time), M&D paid for everything.
It was something i heard a few years back; someone at work was telling the staff room that she going to be a bridesmaid but had to spend a couple of hundred on the dress. I questioned it, presuming the brides father or the bride & groom would pay, but the general consensus in the staff room was that it's normal for the bridesmaids to fork out for whatever pricy frock the bride tells them to buy (they were the next generation down). It perplexed me somewhat but figured it was what they do these days, like young couples saving like mad to pay for their own wedding, giving me the feeling that the brides father paying is no longer the norm.
Then part of a recent TV drama set around 1980 had a similar story; young girl asked to be a bridesmaid but the parents were skint and resorted to extreme means to pay for her bridesmaids dress, which made me wonder if it had always been the norm and i just presumed Mum and Dad paid for
everything at my sister's (first) wedding.
but what do i know. I'm just a bloke