First time I wore a pair of cyclinh shorts, I was so self conscious.
Then I had a word with myself which went something like.
If you're going to be a cyclist, just get on with dressing like one.
That was pretty much it.
First time out the house I felt very strange for the first couple of minutes, then I accepted it and got on with it.
The guys at work have ribbed me about it though.
"I hope you haven't got that lycra gear" ?
"Yes, yes I have. Would you like me to wear it in here ?"
Silence.
It's one area where I'm comfortable in my own skin and won't be apologising for.
I'm pretty much a black shorts kinda guy with a slightly less neat fitting shirt.
I just get on with it.
My wife has no exceptions to it whatsoever.