The whole premise of this thread is, in my opinion, very silly.
Jason - you are asking your friend to do something she isn't that inclined to do, is inefficient and unnecessary, and are nonetheless concerned that she isn't doing the unnecessary and less efficient thing (seemingly) only you want her to do in a style you approve of.
I just don't get your motives.
What's wrong with just riding with your friend and enjoying the ride and the company? Why are you turning it in to some sort of chain-driven drill?