Reynard
Guru
- Location
- Cambridgeshire, UK
Good for you, there does seem to be a rather strange attitude to it.
Indeed, it used to embarrass the hell out of my motor racing and cat show friends to begin with before they knew, thinking that their hospitality was lacking as I never had any wine, champagne etc. Once I explained that I didn't drink, there'd always be a fresh brew waiting for me. We always had a good laugh about it after that.
On other occasions it's cost me dearly. A school reunion meal about 15 years ago was the worst. Original plan was that everyone would go Dutch on the drinks, which was fine by me. I had a coke and a cup of tea with my meal, but ended up having to pay a £20 bar tab for drinks I didn't consume when I went to settle up my bill, as plans were changed without telling me. I only went to the reunion out of politeness, rather than out of a sense of camaraderie with the other girls in my year. Needless to say, I haven't been to another one since.
I do keep a small stock of alcohol to cook with though, as some things aren't the same without a sploosh of wine or brandy...