Hokay then...first off, good news, I can now ride!!! Feels so silly to be happy over such a simple thing but I iz!
So right, went to go to my local park with my wife to carry on practising...but there was a bunch of kids running around, playing football and stuff. So that put me off going there, I wanted to go in (tbh after waiting so long since the last practise I was kinda worried that I'd find I'd have to start all over again!) but she insisted that we go somewhere else. There's a nice little green area not far from us (for those who know Milton Keynes, if youre driving into New Bradwell from the Wolverton end, there's a road that goes off to some alotments).
I got on the bike and did the same things that I'd been doing with the friend. So I pushed off, instantly went leftwards and stopped...so I thought you know, its been a week, I'm bound to be rusty...so I pushed off again, again left and off. Tried again and managed to keep on after the left and then my foot slipped off the pedal, my jeans caught in the gear and I half-fell and grinded my ankle bone on the pedal! At that point I was thinking I wanted to go home again.....then I reminded myself that I knew I could do it...I just had to keep at it.
So probably about 20mins went past and I had varying degrees of success but only as far as going round to the left the whole time. I could keep balance for maybe 5-10 seconds but then I'd end up leaning so much that i'd have to put my foot down.
Then out of the blue, I pushed off, not doing anything different and I managed to catch the leaning and just keep going. Yeah ok I was weaving around like a madman but I was doing it! I was cycling and was able to keep my balance! I looked back to my wife to give her a huge grin...lost my balance and fell off! Important lesson there, keep focus!
So, from there on I started to make little goals, like pedal to "that tree", or whatever. I got better and better at staying on as long as I wanted! Till eventually I was actually circling around the whole grassy area! My wife decided to run off and was calling out for me to catch her and I did! I cycled the fastest I had so far and I even dropped the gear down (leaving 2 on the left and down to 1 on the right) which made it a lot easier.
Finally we decided that it was time to stop (even tho quite a big part of me didnt want to!). I asked her to let me go round one more time, but to record it on my phone...as I wanted to email a video of me riding to my mate...whom without I wouldnt have got this far! So I pushed off and she recorded me going away from her, doing a big cirlce and coming back. She called out to brake as I was heading back at her but I thought "lets see what I can do!" So I called "see ya" as I pushed my legs to cycle harder and flew past her! However as many things go, you should never walk before you can crawl! I hit some undulating ground, heard a clunk from the back of the bike and lost all resistance on the pedals!
My chain had come off! oh cruel world! Why must you keep tormenting me with maintenance issues (tho I do think it was when I hit the up bit of the undulating ground).
Still, unlike last time I had at least achieved the skill of cycling...well, I'm not skilled but I can at least cycle now. Already agreed with the missus to go cycling there again tomorrow - once I fix the chain.
Oh and I have uploaded the video to youtube