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Squire
- Location
- Peterborough
Pete, I realise it can be taken different ways, but the TONE its used in dictates what it means. Trust me..i WAS there...it was said in a non inflammatory way.
I could have said, 'c'mon bud, ( bud..a friendly term i use a lot, some say a bad habit, but thats another matter)...give us a break' I would have meant that in an equally non-inflammatory way.
I could equally have said 'you'll get yourself or me killed bud' with genuine concern.
I could have entered into a lengthy discussion with him about road safety, he could have given his point of view, perhaps he may have enlightened me why using the road was better and more important than the safety of cyclists and possibly 10 cars that had to slow down, potentially causing an accident (not likely, but not impossible either)
I may even have agreed with his unlikely reason for being there...perhaps the empty footpath nearby was ...you get the gist.
I could have cycled on and said nothing....perhaps he may have been run over by one of the hundreds of cars that must have passed him within 12inches. One driver not paying attention...bang...your out. Not likely, but theres plenty of people killed by someone not paying attention.
This is quite close to my heart actually. I had to take a girl home once, crying hysterically in the car beside me, because her brother had just been killed on the A1 an hour before. He was walking home from a broken down car, back to the traffic...bang..he never came home. It send shivers down my spine when i remember how she sobbed..what can you say ???. Grit your teeth and get it over as soon as you can.
Perhaps subconciously, this is what irked me about his behaviour.
Dont all jump to conclusions...trust me, i'm not a rude person unless provoked.
This is the trouble with this form of communication, you cant convey emotions or tone of voice. I say again, trust me....i was not rude in the first place.
I could have said, 'c'mon bud, ( bud..a friendly term i use a lot, some say a bad habit, but thats another matter)...give us a break' I would have meant that in an equally non-inflammatory way.
I could equally have said 'you'll get yourself or me killed bud' with genuine concern.
I could have entered into a lengthy discussion with him about road safety, he could have given his point of view, perhaps he may have enlightened me why using the road was better and more important than the safety of cyclists and possibly 10 cars that had to slow down, potentially causing an accident (not likely, but not impossible either)
I may even have agreed with his unlikely reason for being there...perhaps the empty footpath nearby was ...you get the gist.
I could have cycled on and said nothing....perhaps he may have been run over by one of the hundreds of cars that must have passed him within 12inches. One driver not paying attention...bang...your out. Not likely, but theres plenty of people killed by someone not paying attention.
This is quite close to my heart actually. I had to take a girl home once, crying hysterically in the car beside me, because her brother had just been killed on the A1 an hour before. He was walking home from a broken down car, back to the traffic...bang..he never came home. It send shivers down my spine when i remember how she sobbed..what can you say ???. Grit your teeth and get it over as soon as you can.
Perhaps subconciously, this is what irked me about his behaviour.
Dont all jump to conclusions...trust me, i'm not a rude person unless provoked.
This is the trouble with this form of communication, you cant convey emotions or tone of voice. I say again, trust me....i was not rude in the first place.