Johnsco
Old Fettler
- Location
- Leeds, West Yorkshire
There is a happy mid-way in this discussion of spend-it or save-it.
My father was a keen cyclist --- Ran the local cycling club in the 1930s.
He worked hard all his life and provided well for us.
In his last 15 years, he chose to live the life of a pauper.
He died at 92.
He refused to have central heating installed, maintain his house security or spend anything on himself.
My brother and I pleaded with him to spend his cash on making his life more comfortable.
He told us he was saving it for me and my brother.
We both had homes … We both were better-off than he had ever been.
Eventually I said: "What you don't spend, you can be sure that we'll spend it for you".
It made no difference.
I've always said - "Spend it all and die in debt".
I'll not be following my dad's example when it comes to spending money.
If we want it --- We get it …. But I do spend thoughtfully and try not to waste my hard-earned cash (or my dad's).
My father was a keen cyclist --- Ran the local cycling club in the 1930s.
He worked hard all his life and provided well for us.
In his last 15 years, he chose to live the life of a pauper.
He died at 92.
He refused to have central heating installed, maintain his house security or spend anything on himself.
My brother and I pleaded with him to spend his cash on making his life more comfortable.
He told us he was saving it for me and my brother.
We both had homes … We both were better-off than he had ever been.
Eventually I said: "What you don't spend, you can be sure that we'll spend it for you".
It made no difference.
I've always said - "Spend it all and die in debt".
I'll not be following my dad's example when it comes to spending money.
If we want it --- We get it …. But I do spend thoughtfully and try not to waste my hard-earned cash (or my dad's).