Coincident you may call it, you may not even believe me but tomorrow I will be making the trip from Lincoln to Fleet to say goodbye to my 98 year old Mum who is fast slipping away, so yes I know exactly what you went through and would not wish it on anyone.
I'm so sorry to hear that - I hope she goes peacefully.
I know it isn't much comfort, but she's had a good long life. My mum got to 86 and I told her that she'd managed to reach the life expectancy of Japanese women, the longest-living people on the planet. She was quite chuffed when I pointed that out. Your mum has had 12 more years than that, but it still seems too soon doesn't it?
Best wishes to you and your family.
You sir are doing something about it, you will succeed and get a return on your hard work. The majority of fat people in the UK will not do anything about it.
I'm sure that people would have said that about our Gaz, gb155, and for many years, it would have been true, but just see what he has now achieved - down from nearly 40 stone to 13-and-a-bit!
I appreciate everybodies view on this subject and like an the ex-smoker I am I tend to be the worse nag. Bit like I managed to give up the filthy stinking habit how come everybody else cannot do the same.
Well, of course, I'm an ex-smoker too and I tend to have strong views on that subject, but every person has to decide for themselves to stop. Or lose weight.
I feel fantastic after losing the fat, I just want to spread the word I want all the fatties in the world to realise that life is far better without the lard, or at least some of it.
I'm well aware of what it feels like. I'm a medium built man, 6' 1" tall and my adult weight has varied between a very underweight 10 st 10 lbs and an obese 16 st 5 lbs. I remember what my cycling felt like when I was a sensible weight. Yes, it was great, and I will get there again one day, provided that I haven't died trying!
The way to get people to do it though is to 'lead from the front', or if like me you aren't fit enough to do that, then at least 'lead from the back'!
I'm sure that potsy and Steve H won't mind me mentioning that they have been struggling with their weight too. They have come out on lots of my forum rides and suffered alongside me and are getting slimmer and fitter, month by month. It's very gratifying to have played a small part in it, though obviously most of it comes from the cycling they do without me.
I don't think that calling people names or putting them down helps though. Gentle encouragement is the way to go!
So, fellow overweight people ... just a reminder that you'll feel a lot better, and live longer, healthier lives if you tackle the weight issue. It is possible, and it is worth having a go.
And now, believe it or not, I'm going to go downstairs, crack open a few cans and relax watching today's Tour de France coverage.
Cheers!