I generally enjoy the preparations in the kitchen (well mine ... more stressful trying to help out in someone else's kitchen) ... there is no fixed time to eat ... and if I forget to put something on ... well there is more than enough with the rest anyway. The only one who has ever given me stress in my kitchen is my brother-in-law ... came and sat in the kitchen to read his newspaper

now I didn't mind him reading it (elsewhere not in my way), wouldn't have minded him sitting there with a glass chatting ... but to simply get in my way .... ended up asking him to entertain my kids to get him out of the kitchen. He is very thick skinned so doesn't get any hints but he is nice - just couldn't be married to him!