It's true, and sad, that a lot of people have lost, or never had, the ability to cook. A girl who worked at St Nicks, I dunno, early 20's, and working as a youth volunteer coordinator, so relatively intelligent and educated, was talking about how people don't cook any more, and how it was all the fault of the supermarkets. I opined that this was rubbish, since I do all my grocery shopping in supermarkets and still cook a proper meal every day - supermarkets do sell ingredients, not just ready made stuff. She wasn't convinced, and then said that anyway it was really complicated to cook, you had to time stuff.... My rather curt response was "get a watch then..." But of course, it's not hard for me, because I learned at my mother's (and then when roles changed, my father's) apron strings. I'm confident enough to produce pasta dishes, curries, risottoes, roasts, because it's all second nature. Yeah, there are things that have to be learned - that's what recipes are for.