i agree that lad had good intentions but i agree more with others in here, i've done the hard intensive excersise and strict diet thing before. it works, but now i'm taking a more relaxed approach...cycling is mainly for enjoyment - i will push myself and always have the next goal to work towards, but at a steady pace (would like to be able to do hartside pass in 2 years but if it takes 5 then so what?).
as for diet, well its good old commom sense - ease off the junk fat and sugar but enjoy a little bit of it, fruit and veg, carbs and suchlike + ease off the alcohol a week or two before a challenging ride.
i've reached a point in my life where it would be nice to be at my fittest but i'll happily live with 'quite good' and i dont mind carrying a bit extra, and whilst i am spurred on and inspired by more experienced cycling friends, i dont feel the need to compete or catch up quickly, i have found my 'zone' of going with the flow but pushing myself steadily.
And i retire in 15 years time so because i'll only be 55 i will, all being well, have many years of good cycling to enjoy (maybe with werthers original instead of jelly babies)