"Thread derailing"? What is this thread actually about? The sanctimonious hand-wringing RIPs, the picking-over, the groundless empty speculation about the behaviour and subsequent death of a real person are the insensitive bit.
I think I was the first to reply on this thread with an ''RIP
'' message. On its own a post like that serves no great purpose, I know. It goes some way, I suppose, to quelling that gut wrenching feeling that I get whenever the next one comes along. I ride enough in the inner city to know that it may one day happen to me, and that more likely than not, it will be through no fault of my own, so I'm not going to speculate about the behaviour of the victim.
However, in a more general sense, I know that in the background to so many of these deaths there are the road systems designed by highway engineers with reserved parking places at the council, there is the ''I'm late, must dash to the lights'' stop-start way of driving that has become more noticeable as traffic speeds decrease, London tipper truck drivers, tweeting twats, and the whole carboodle. It all seems to boil down to car = entitlement.
As to these ''cyclist killed'' threads, it's a bit like ghost bikes: warn of the risks, search for a little empathy or even consideration, and leave a space to commemorate the victims. Or do as Greenwich Park did when a driver decided he had to go to the toilet so swung across the road to get to the public conveniences, and people put up a ghost bike to commemorate the cyclist he killed as he did it. The park people took the bike away. Apparently reality sits badly alongside tourism. I find the missing ghost bike more chilling than, say, Stella's or Adrianna's on the lower road. (Even more chilling that I remember those 2 names but not the guy's on the park hill.)
And as for hand-wringing, I've been on 2 protest rides in the last month (50% men, 50% woman, 100% construction industry lorries, 100% dead), I have no power over the motor industry lobby, and going on too many of these rides will seriously mess my head up. It's bad enough dealing with the traffic already.